As a shy and natural introvert. Also study in boys school. Don’t want to talk or don’t have confidence to approach. Have a social anxiety. Never get open with anyone quickly. It takes me time. Never approached any girl I want.
I want to be confident, don’t want to hear anything, approach the girl I want.
I’m not doing anything for becoming confident. When I force myself to do, it didn’t work. i thought When I feel ready than I go and approach. Because it didn’t work i never feel ready.
I don’t to be in that situation. I want to be in the safe side. I feel inside “What happen if I get rejected”. ” What people think when I go and approach a girl”. Because of this thinking I never go and approach a girl.
Holding myself back and not facing my fear grow stronger.
But I don’t want to be that way , I want to be successful, confident, charismatic, attractive character.
I start worrying more and more when I saw people have girlfriend where I’m single. I become so hard on myself, beat myself for not have any girlfriend.
One of my friend who have girlfriend notice inside me what is the problem and why I’m not being able to approach and give me some simple tips. I’m happy listening after his advice. Think he is my real friend.
I started following I found a huge difference within me and have confidence to talk with any girl. I beat my shyness. i approach a girl and make my first girlfriend.
Thanks to my friend. What he teach me I’m going to share with you all today. Let’s start.
Approaching a girl respectfully and confidently is important. Here are some steps to help you approach a girl:
1: Maintain Good Hygiene
Before approaching anyone, ensure you are well-groomed and smell pleasant. First impressions matter.
2: Choose the Right time and Place
Pick an approapriate setting where it’s socially acceptable to start a conversation, such as a social event, party, or a mutual interest group. Avoid approaching in situations where she may feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
3. Make Eye contact
Establish eye contact from a distance to see if she’s open to interaction. If she looks back and smiles or maintains eye contact it may be a positive signal.
4. Smile
A friendly smile can make you seem approachable and put the other person at ease.
5. Approach Casually
Walk confidently toward her with relaxed body language. Avoid sudden or aggressive movements.
6 Start with a Greeting
As you get closer, initiate the conversation with a simple greeting like :Hello: or : Hi” Use her name if you know it.
7. pay compliments
Begin the conversation with a sincere compliment that is specific and not overly personal. For example you might compliment her clothing hairstyle or something you genuinely admire about her.
8. Introduce Yourself
After the initial greeting introduce yourself by saying something ” I’m [your name] Nice to meet you.”
9. Ask open ended questions
Engage her in conversation by asking open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. For instance, ” What brings you here tonight?” or ” Tell me about your interests”.
10, Listen Actively
Pay close attention to what she says, and respond to her comments and questions. Show genuine interest in getting to know her.
11. Maintain Confidence
Be confident but not pushy If she seems disinterested or uncomfortable, respect her boundaries and gracefully exit the conversation .
12. Respect Non-Verbal Cues
Be attuned to her body language and non’verbal cues. If she appears disengaged or signals disinterest. It’s essential to respect her signals and back off.
13. Offer a compliment or comment
As the conversation progresses, you can offer more compliments or make thoughtful comments related to the topic at hand .
14. Express Your Interest
If you’re enjoying the conversation and feel a connection, express your interest in getting to know her better. Ask if she’d be interested in continuing the conversation over coffee or another activity.
15 Respect her Response
Regardless of her response, whether it’s positive or negative respect her decision and feelings. If she declines your offer, be gracious and polite.
Remember that not every approach will result in a positive outcome, and that’s okay. it’s important to be respectful, confident and considerate throughout the process. the key is to be genuine and kind, and to treat the person with respect and dignity.
